As someone who is interested in partaking in crossdressing, you’re likely very aware of the fact that while the niche is growing, finding partners who are also into crossdressing can be a pretty daunting task. Realistically speaking, you’re probably not going to just outwardly express your love for dressing up as the opposite sex to a stranger at a party, so this has made dating, mingling, and hooking up very difficult for the average person with some special kinks. To make matters even worse, there have never truly been many options online to begin with, and many people find their kinky sex partners online but even this has historically been a very limited option. We’ve done extensive research and have now compiled a list of the best crossdresser dating websites of the year.
Best Crossdresser Dating Websites:
1. Trans 5.0 out of 5.0 stars
Trans is a mobile application that is available on the Google Play Store as well as the Apple App Store, meaning it is compatible with both iPhones and Androids. It currently holds the title of being the biggest dating site on the web right now as it pertains to transgender and crossdresser dating which is why it tops our list here. If you are someone who is not necessarily interested in transgender individuals, then this app may be troublesome for you as it contains a high percentage of people who have either had sex changes or identify as the opposite sex. With that being said, there is still a good portion of non-trans individuals on there who are just looking for other crossdressers. I’ve found that they were generally pretty easy to find, however do keep in mind that as with all dating sites, your likelihood of finding a suitable match goes up in larger cities.
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2. Adult Friend Finder 5.0 out of 5.0 stars
This is a platform that we truly love and recommend quite often. It is certainly not geared towards the crossdresser community specifically, however it is a platform that definitely has a reputation for connecting individuals who have kinks or fetishes. The name might imply that it is for finding friends, but almost everyone I’ve spoken to about this platform has found anything BUT friends on here. We enjoyed our experience using it so much that we even wrote a review on Adult Friend Finder. Again, the likelihood of finding someone who is also into crossdressing is going to increase when you’re talking about larger cities (specifically within the United States). Unfortunately, your odds of finding many prospects in smaller cities are significantly lower and the city itself matters quite a bit as well (some cities have a higher concentration of LGBTQ, crossdressers, etc.)
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3. Fetlife 4.7 out of 5.0 stars
Fetlife is yet another option we can recommend for crossdressers or crossdresser lovers. It’s similar to Adult Friend Finder however nobody here does not have a fetish – this website is specifically geared for those who have a desire to play out a fantasy or two. This is an ecosystem that is free of judgment or boundaries of any sort; regardless of your kinky desire, you’re very likely to find someone else on Fetlife to enjoy them with. The reason this platform doesn’t rank quite as high as the others on our list is because the UI is not the most user friendly and it can be difficult to learn for a beginner. It is also not used nearly as globally as AFF or other alternatives for finding partners with kinks. However, when you’re in the right city using Fetlife can be really enjoyable and worthwhile. Give it a try and see for yourself.
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4. Alt.com 4.5 out of 5.0 stars
Alt.com is a website that has been around for quite a while and has garnered a reputation of being one of the most reliable and steady kink dating sites out there. Upon arriving to their homepage, you’re likely to think to yourself that this is not the platform for you since it highlights itself as being mainly a BDSM website. However, upon entry it is easy to see that this is not only a dating website for those interested in dominant/submissive play (with BDSM), but that there is also a growing population of users who are strictly there for crossdressing and/or trans dating. So far, I’ve noticed that it’s a tremendous choice. However, do keep in mind that while the population of these types of users is growing, it is still relatively small and minuscule compared to the other major platforms we’ve listed.
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5. Tinder 4.0 out of 5.0 stars
Yes, the quality of Tinder has seriously degraded over the years and yes, there are a boatload of problems which can arise with Tinder such as catfishes, fake profiles, and scammers. With that being said, there is still a place for Tinder in this discussion as you can still typically find a few people who are interested in crossdressing if you look hard enough. Obviously the percentage is much smaller than you would find on websites which are dedicated to connecting people with kinks and fetishes, but we shouldn’t discredit the platform entirely. There is still luck to be had by using Tinder and if you’re living in a relatively large and metropolitan part of the world, it’s certainly worth a shot.
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Using The Right Crossdresser Dating Site
Evidently, it can be quite difficult to sit down and pick which website you would like to go with. At the end of the day, we’re not really worried about the platform itself or how it functions; what interests us the most is finding the best and most compatible partner for us. What this means is that finding out what site works best for you is very difficult from an outside perspective and to truly see what’s out there in your city, you must sign up for the services to see with your own eyes. Again, crossdresser dating sites are extremely rare as it is still a relatively small niche and this makes finding partners difficult. While there may be an app or website in the future that is completely dedicated to connecting crossdressers, at this moment in time we have to look ahead to kink/fetish websites in general.
Crossdresser Dating Sites: Do They Actually Work?
If you stick by our suggestions and use the safe websites we’ve mentioned then yes, online crossdresser dating sites definitely do work. If you decide to do your own ‘research’ about what the best sites are by trying out each site individually, you may end up having some bad luck and coming across a site that is a total scam. This is a common trend in the online dating space so be extremely cautious if you do decide to try out some sites that we don’t have listed on here. Remember, the best crossdresser dating apps or sites are the ones that work and that have real people on them.
Bottom Line: Crossdresser Dating In The Technology Age
Look – crossdresser dating was never easy to begin with. If you think it’s difficult now, imagine how tough it would have been 50 years ago when the concept was even more stigmatized than it is today. When you take the internet out of the equation, you’d pretty much be left with nothing unless you were to fall into some luck and meet the right person by chance. The bottom line is this; crossdresser dating has taken massive leaps over the last couple of years and while it may not be perfected entirely, there’s never been a better time to find other crossdressers online than today.
After graduating with a bachelors of psychology from Columbia University in 2006, Alexander decided that he would choose to go down the path of self-employment rather than traditional employment as most graduates do. Since then, he has rigorously studied how online dating platforms work and has cemented himself as an authority in the space. Readers respect him for his tremendous insight on various dating apps, sex products, and guides.
